I talked about chameleons in another post because of their changeability. But I pointed out that they could not change color to adapt to everything. This time I want to talk about people wanting to make changes to others.

AI will be the only way to make what may be considered to be a perfect being for you. Otherwise, give it up, because you have no power over the changing of anyone. People may have destructive habits or flaws that you want to see go away, or they may not look or act the way you want them to. You can influence (maybe) their recovery or their actions or even their looks, but these changes only occur because they (not you) have made the ultimate decision to do them.

On the flip side, people who try to place blame on others for telling them to do certain things like change the way they act or look are not admitting that they themselves want to make those changes. They may say their reasons are because of the influencer, but they know deep down that it is because of something else. Yes, the person may be strong willed and want you to look or act a certain way. But you would only comply because you want to satisfy that person, not because that person “made” you. And the reason you really want to lay blame is because you don’t want to admit the underlying reason, which may be financial or your desire to not be alone or whatever.

You are the only person who can make you be whoever it is you are, unless you are under some chemical or coercive influence (like physical threats) that makes someone’s suggestions and influence more probable.